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hes not his :/

Posted by on Nov. 7, 2012 at 2:46 PM
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So me and my dh have been together since I was pregnant (or thought I was) and my dh thought it wants his and still wanted to step up and be his dad well the doctor thought he was a little earlyer then they thought and so he thought there could have been a chance it was his well we took a paternity test to see and it turn out it isn't and I'm scared that when I tell him he will treat ds differently :(
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cemcnair
by Courtney on Nov. 7, 2012 at 3:08 PM
Give him a chance, he may surprise you! And, wait until you know to worry :)
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megandcailey08
by Bronze Member on Nov. 7, 2012 at 3:16 PM

do u really blame him? thats why people shouldnt sleep around. i hope he still sticks around

cemcnair
by Courtney on Nov. 7, 2012 at 3:18 PM
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Oh come on! If you've never made a mistake then sure. Geez! She's taking the right steps to determine paternity and it sounds like she's remorseful. Don't be so rude!

Quoting megandcailey08:

do u really blame him? thats why people shouldnt sleep around. i hope he still sticks around

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megandcailey08
by Bronze Member on Nov. 7, 2012 at 3:28 PM
Can't say that I have ever made a mistake like that


Quoting cemcnair:

Oh come on! If you've never made a mistake then sure. Geez! She's taking the right steps to determine paternity and it sounds like she's remorseful. Don't be so rude!



Quoting megandcailey08:

do u really blame him? thats why people shouldnt sleep around. i hope he still sticks around


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cemcnair
by Courtney on Nov. 7, 2012 at 3:30 PM
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Neither have I, but that doesn't mean you should be rude to those who have.

Quoting megandcailey08:

Can't say that I have ever made a mistake like that




Quoting cemcnair:

Oh come on! If you've never made a mistake then sure. Geez! She's taking the right steps to determine paternity and it sounds like she's remorseful. Don't be so rude!





Quoting megandcailey08:

do u really blame him? thats why people shouldnt sleep around. i hope he still sticks around


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1arianna6
by Silver Member on Nov. 7, 2012 at 3:39 PM

 best of luck to you:)

rnchelle93
by on Nov. 7, 2012 at 3:47 PM
That's what happens when you sleep around. I hope he sticks around, but I wouldn't blame him if he doesn't. Gl.
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Teenmommy1119
by on Nov. 7, 2012 at 3:49 PM
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Way to make her feel better. :-/ things happen & mistakes are made, were all human. Without mistakes there would be no point in life. It would be way to boring!

OP: it sounds like he already assumes there's a possibility it isn't his? Correct me if I'm wrong. But I would just tell him before it goes on to long. Be straight forward & stay strong about it. I'm sure he will stick around & you have nothing to worry about.


Quoting megandcailey08:

do u really blame him? thats why people shouldnt sleep around. i hope he still sticks around

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mommaGof3
by on Nov. 7, 2012 at 4:08 PM
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Give him a chance sweetie! It may be a little rough at first but telling him now will be better than him finding out later.
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by Alexia on Nov. 7, 2012 at 4:27 PM

Give him a chance! he may surprise you, he knew from the beginning there was a possibility it wasn't his!! i am sure he will still love this baby as if it was his. Good luck mama!! XOXO


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Proud mama to Olivia EST~ 12.O1.2OO8

Can't wait to meet Elliott EDD~ O4.O7.2O13

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