My mother dies last February. She never got to meet our little one:( My dad started seeing a new women the day after she died. Now his new "thing" wants a mothers ring for Christmas with his kids and her kids birthstones in it. I do not think it is right! I tolerate her for the sake of my dad. I feel so bad when i let her hold my son cause my mother never got to hold him. what should i do?? advise anyone?