It's very normal to feel sad. Your hormones drop so suddenly after birth it can give you major mood swings. You're not alone, most mothers experience some baby blues. If you feel you need help get it ASAP.
you no what sometimes you have people around you that they say I'm your friend but when you really need someone and all that people that you have around you turn back and walk away and they forget what they say that happen to me and I was feeling the something but don't worry look at your baby and look at your self and say "I'm strong and i don't need nobody I just need may self" say that every day every morning and you'r going to feel proud of your self because we are strong and we don't need nobody.
My son is 3 and I still do that sometimes. Just because I need someone to talk too and I don't have any "true" friends to talk too. Everyone keeps telling me to talk to my husband but it isn't the same then hanging out with friends and talking. The main thing that gets me thru the day is that I have my son and to me that is the most important thing in my life.
Take a min for yourself, just because you have a kid doesnt mean you cant do anything. get a family member to take the baby and get out of the house, go get you hair done, go shopping do something for yourself, if you cant get a babysitter when you lay the baby down take a bath give yourself a little sit down relaxed time, you need to take time for yourself.
Dont even worry about it. i have it too. and i went a month without saying anything to anyone, finally i talked to my husband and now im on anti-deppressents and am seeing a therapist. i know how hard it is to ask for help, but ask for it. the thing you dont want to do is let it get any worse.
How far along were you when you realized you were pregnant?
- lonelyMom02
on Dec. 9, 2012 at 8:16 PM