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16 with a 2year old daughter and 11 weeks pregnant with another. Advice?

Posted by on Dec. 13, 2012 at 9:55 PM
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Hi, I am 16 years old. I have a 2 year old ( soon to be 3 in march 2013) and I am 11 weeks pregnant with another child as of today. I'm being told by some to abort the child and go on to college and live my life. I am not the selfish type to do such a thing but I'm being pressured into it. Advice please???! And yes, I have graduated highschool. Father is still in the picture as well. And I have held a full time (40hour) a week job for 13 months now. Please no rude comments .
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Chelsey191
by Member on Dec. 13, 2012 at 10:01 PM
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Advice is get some bc and better education on sex ed. Those babies deserve the best life at 16 can you really give them that?
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erinmomofone
by on Dec. 13, 2012 at 10:07 PM
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If you have nothing nice to say you don't say it at all! Ugh people drive me crazy.

I was a mom at 14 and I only have one but I couldnt do abortion. Adoption might be ok. However I think if you can do it then do it. Anyway I am here if you need me
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stressedmama24
by on Dec. 13, 2012 at 10:11 PM
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Okay u are in the young moms group as well so obviously u had kids at a young age too so take your own damb advice u hatefule bitch!


Quoting Chelsey191:

Advice is get some bc and better education on sex ed. Those babies deserve the best life at 16 can you really give them that?

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stressedmama24
by on Dec. 13, 2012 at 10:13 PM
@erinmomofone.....you and i think alike!
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noahmommie2012
by on Dec. 13, 2012 at 10:13 PM
if u set ur mind to it u can do it. it be hard but hell having a baby for the first time was hard. since u got through it u cna take this on.
iwanabemomie
by Member on Dec. 13, 2012 at 10:16 PM
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If you can do it keep it.most 16yr I know I dont hold a hs diploma.goodluck
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ReynaYesenia
by on Dec. 13, 2012 at 10:19 PM
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wow.. Anyways.. Im not a mom yet.. :) hopefully soon to be.. But if you need to talk.. Im here :)
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Kazmira222
by on Dec. 13, 2012 at 10:21 PM
I'd honestly consider abortion only because that kinda stuff doesn't bother me. Main reason I chose to stick with my pregnancy is because I have full family support and am out of high school (I'm 19) AND I believed my ex and I would have figured things out. :/ but this just my opinion. On the other hand just keep doing what your doing. Next time get on a BC. I plan I'm getting right back on it after I have my lil one. Good luck.
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miranda_
by on Dec. 13, 2012 at 10:23 PM

How are you sixteen and you graduated already? I started school a year early and I still wasn't able to graduate until 17.

erinmomofone
by on Dec. 13, 2012 at 10:26 PM
If her birthday is late and she graduated a year earlier. Like I was 17 graduated right before my 18th birthday on my normal graduation date so it's possible.


Quoting miranda_:

How are you sixteen and you graduated already? I started school a year early and I still wasn't able to graduate until 17.


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