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Due in 28 days...& my son's dad doesn't know if he wants to be in the room

Posted by on Dec. 31, 2012 at 7:58 PM
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At this point I dont even know if he is going to show up. He does check up on me or anything knowing im so close to my due date. He is 19 but acts 5.. So when I go into labor should I just send him a text saying im in labor and see what happens or beg him to be there. Im leaning more towards just sending a text and leaven it in God's hands.

by on Dec. 31, 2012 at 7:58 PM
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KylersMom8-16-7
by Gold Member on Dec. 31, 2012 at 10:29 PM
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I would just send a text and let him decide. If you want him there let him know.
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Reina13
by on Jan. 1, 2013 at 1:55 PM
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You cant force him to be there. Besides this is a beautiful moment for you, no sense in having someone there who doesnt really want to be there, messing up your moment. Good luck mama!

TS9509
by Member on Jan. 1, 2013 at 1:58 PM
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I say just text him and let him know your in labor. If he comes then he comes if not then you know how important the child is to him. I honestly wouldn't focus on that, I would focus on bringing the child into a happy and loving environment.
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vannahmarie
by on Jan. 1, 2013 at 2:07 PM

I agree with the others.

BrownEyedGirl86
by Bronze Member on Jan. 1, 2013 at 2:08 PM
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I would send a text and leave it up to him.
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happysnappyJ
by on Jan. 1, 2013 at 2:18 PM
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Tell him you are in labor and let him make the choice. 

deviljrswifey
by on Jan. 1, 2013 at 4:17 PM

Some guys just dont want to.

Vonnie20
by on Jan. 3, 2013 at 11:04 AM

thanks !

AubreeGrace17
by Aubree on Jan. 3, 2013 at 11:22 AM
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Honestly? If he hasn't stepped up by now he won't in the future. I would let him know when you go into labor. Good luck.
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