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may be TMI, but need "intimate relations" advice

Posted by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 6:46 PM
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Me and the boyfriend are engaged and our wedding date is March 16. He always teased me that when we got married, the sex would come to a halt, but since I've gotten pregnant and a second job, my sex drive is 0.

He doesn't ever get mad about it, just teases me that he's going to turn into a priest with all the "celibacy". I feel bad, but I really just can't make myself "be in the mood."

Any advice or anyone else like this?

by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 6:46 PM
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AleaKat
by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 6:49 PM
How far along are you?
I know up until I got big my sex drive was insane! I was humping his leg as soon as he walked through the door. Lol
After I had the baby though I had no sex drive. He was understanding.
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bchic24
by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 6:51 PM

I didnt't have sex with my husband th whole time I was pregnant and not until 10 weeks post pardum. I noly just recently got my sex drive back and my son is now two. -_-

KylersMom8-16-7
by Platinum Member on Jan. 14, 2013 at 6:53 PM
Very normal:-) He'll have to suck it up lol.
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MGM.mommy
by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 6:57 PM

I am 18 week tomorrow. The first 6 weeks, my sex drive was in overdrive (never had morning sickness), but then it just went to a screetching halt.. He's ok with it.. I still try to do it every few weeks, but I guess Rosie and her sisters are getting a good workout lol

Nicki1995
by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 7:39 PM

I was like that too with all the morning sickness and severe vaginal swelling. We didnt have sex until 4 weeks post partum.

Chelseadawn08
by on Jan. 15, 2013 at 12:24 AM
My husband teases me too! But it's normal so don't be hard on urself! One thing I try to do is make sure he knows I love him, I try to make his Fav meals a lot, buy him lil nerdy things he likes, and when he is in the mood and I can't (I am disabled and with kids and big house to keep up I just want to sleep) I make sure that he understands that I still think he is sexy and its a me thing and not him! So find ur lil things for him so he doesn't feel completely neglected!
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emilyelephant
by on Jan. 15, 2013 at 12:56 AM

My boyfriend hasn't gotten it since I was 6 month pregnant, and now 17 weeks after baby, still hasn't.  It  hurt/still hurts too much. I tried to once in a while when pregnant, until it got unbearable. It was just for him.  But now that's it's been so long I think he's just used to it.  Still wants it, obviously, but I know he really loves me if he's willing to go so long.

I don't really like that he watches porn, but if that'll satisfy him, I don't care lol

Emiliush
by on Jan. 15, 2013 at 1:09 AM

read 50 shades of grey... haa.. but thats sad.... it will come eventually...


MGM.mommy
by on Jan. 20, 2013 at 12:55 PM
I've already read all 3 lol. Our son's middle name will be grey (everyone thinks its bc of the stupid books)


Quoting Emiliush:

read 50 shades of grey... haa.. but thats sad.... it will come eventually...



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cemcnair
by on Jan. 20, 2013 at 6:14 PM
It is normal! Sometimes just making yourself have sex will help your drive out. I'm 32 weeks now and try to make sure to approach dh at least 2-3 times a week even if I'm not in the mood.
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