Ever since my fiance and I got to get together we have had a strange relationship. We actually met on like online and really fell for each other. He moved from Missouri to ohio to be with me, and Iknow that was hard for them and him. But since then (2010) his mother has really hated me. She wont say anything to my face but she puts rude facebook comments about me all the time. They never had a good relationship she made him move out at 16 . I really want to marry this guy, he really made me a happier person. But she really does not like me and I dont want to have all these fights about how his mom treats me. She also feels everything is about her i told her i really wanted to have the time in the hospital to be with my fiance and son. But with in 12 hours of birth she was in ohio (13 hour drive). The day we got out of the hospital she demanded we go out to dinner. And expected my 4 day old son to go out to. I live by cleveland and in october its realy cold. She got so upset the when we came to missouri for thanksgiving(my son was only a month and hated the drive) i was not a perky happy person .This was because i had to miss being with my mom (she gets every other holiday off)and my 18th birthday to go there. I was nice and didn't do anything mean I just was really lonely.
How do i get my fiance to get that it really upsets me or to get her to stop. I don't want to have a bad relationship with her but i want her to treat me better,am I just stuck or being silly. My fiance just tells me she does this to everyone yet that doesn't seem to be true. Please help.