I am 26 weeks pregnant and 19 years old. Pretty much for the last 22 weeks it's been my family supporting my boyfriend and I's decision to keep our baby. When I found out I was pregnant, my boyfriend told his parents before I told anyone. They then called my mom and informed her about what as going on, hinting that they thought the best decision was an abortion or adoption. My mom had no idea I was pregnant at this point and informed them of this. Several days later my mom asked me about it, and I was shocked! My dad was supposed to come down for a visit from Vermont and I had planned to tell them about my pregnancy at the same time. Obviously, I raised hell about this to my boyfriend, who asked his parents what they were thinking. Their response? They didn't know that I hadn't told her and it had "slipped their minds" to tell us that they had told her themselves.
Since then, they've done nothing but try and convince my boyfriend not to have this baby, going so far as to say that they did not plan on helping us. When my boyfriend's mom told her mom, they told her not to tell anyone because "it was not for sure that we were keeping this baby". At this point I was almost 6 months pregnant- I was for sure keeping the baby. Anyways, the point is that they've been COMPLETELY unsupportive this whole time, and recently they've been buying all this stuff for the baby and asking for me to pick out a crib for them to buy us. I refuse to look at any of their "gifts" and I am not going to pick out a crib for them to buy... I don't want it!! As far as I'm concerned, they had plenty of time to be supportive and were not. Now my boyfriend is on their side and says that they are going to see the baby whenever they want whether I like it or not. Obviously I did not take that lightly....
Am I over-reacting or am I justified in my opinion?
Thanks for responding!