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is it ok to be upset?

Posted by on Feb. 16, 2013 at 12:10 PM
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so thursday night my man looked at me and said "i'm not going to be home this weekend i'm going up to see some friends" ok fine, i undrstand he works hard and wants some friend time. but a hole weekend? not to menchion all i'v been hereing from our daughter is "where's daddy?" i'm trying to be understanding of his feelings. and i didnt argue about him leaving. last night i got a text "i'll be home for a few hours tomorrow :) cant wait to see you" and i got really excited to be able to see him for a little bit. and our DD would be able to see him. but now he's telling me he's only comeing back to pick up his cheak then leaveing again. i have to leave for work at 1:30 and i was hopeing to see him even if it would only be a few minuts. Is it wrong of me to be this upset that he just desides to up and leave to be with friends when ever he feels like? i dont leave for a hole weekend! i would reather be at home with our baby.

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eds6619
by on Feb. 16, 2013 at 12:16 PM

 an entire weekend is a long time, but if he doesn't do it all the time, then I wouldn't be too upset.

cemcnair
by Courtney on Feb. 16, 2013 at 12:24 PM
I'd be upset that instead of it being a conversation he just told you he was leaving. My dh is going all next weekend, but we've discussed and planned.
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ButterflyLette
by on Feb. 16, 2013 at 1:09 PM
Id be pissed! But that's just me I've been cheated on a lot so i just assume that's what was going on but if u trust him i wouldn't be to upset.
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NicholeJirik
by on Feb. 16, 2013 at 1:19 PM


he's cheated once. which is probibly why i'm reacting this way.. and this isnt the first time he's "gone out for a guys weekend" and everytime i tell him the same thing. i dont care if he goes out for a few hours and if he gets to drunk to drive, stay the night i would rather have that then him crashing. but i dont like him gone the whole weekend. i see no point of it. when my friends want to see me thay understand that i'm not going to leave my child for a wole weekend. so we eather hang at my house for a few hours or we find a kid frendly place so i can bring my DD with.. 

Quoting ButterflyLette:

Id be pissed! But that's just me I've been cheated on a lot so i just assume that's what was going on but if u trust him i wouldn't be to upset.



ButterflyLette
by on Feb. 16, 2013 at 1:23 PM
I guess i don't know why he needs a whole weekend seems odd but your defiantly ok to be upset id invite the girls over for the weekend to keep your mind off it


Quoting NicholeJirik:


he's cheated once. which is probibly why i'm reacting this way.. and this isnt the first time he's "gone out for a guys weekend" and everytime i tell him the same thing. i dont care if he goes out for a few hours and if he gets to drunk to drive, stay the night i would rather have that then him crashing. but i dont like him gone the whole weekend. i see no point of it. when my friends want to see me thay understand that i'm not going to leave my child for a wole weekend. so we eather hang at my house for a few hours or we find a kid frendly place so i can bring my DD with.. 


Quoting ButterflyLette:

Id be pissed! But that's just me I've been cheated on a lot so i just assume that's what was going on but if u trust him i wouldn't be to upset.





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NicholeJirik
by on Feb. 16, 2013 at 1:42 PM


lol if we didnt all have to work i would. i guess i'm just going to hang out with my DD and go to work and try not to think about it. but when he gets home were going to have a long talk about this.

Quoting ButterflyLette:

I guess i don't know why he needs a whole weekend seems odd but your defiantly ok to be upset id invite the girls over for the weekend to keep your mind off it


Quoting NicholeJirik:


he's cheated once. which is probibly why i'm reacting this way.. and this isnt the first time he's "gone out for a guys weekend" and everytime i tell him the same thing. i dont care if he goes out for a few hours and if he gets to drunk to drive, stay the night i would rather have that then him crashing. but i dont like him gone the whole weekend. i see no point of it. when my friends want to see me thay understand that i'm not going to leave my child for a wole weekend. so we eather hang at my house for a few hours or we find a kid frendly place so i can bring my DD with.. 


Quoting ButterflyLette:

Id be pissed! But that's just me I've been cheated on a lot so i just assume that's what was going on but if u trust him i wouldn't be to upset.







shawnny1996
by on Feb. 16, 2013 at 7:07 PM


yeah you have the right to be upset i would too

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