So, my ex partner and I have been broken up for 7 months, though we were not really 'together' for about 6 months before that, it was one of those relationships you stick out for the sake of your kid, and then realise it's not worth it.
Anyway, I'm with a new fella. We've known each other for 13yrs (grew up around each other, parents were always friends etc). When we ran into each other again, it was, quite literally, love at second sight. We have spent a fair bit of time catching up on the 3 or so years that we haven't really been around each other.
He is kind, he is caring, he never raises his voice, he makes me laugh and smile and you know, all the great things that people tell us we will never find in a man.
We got to talking last night, I'd been daydreaming about weddings (now don't get me wrong, engagement is at least another 6 months away, and a wedding at least a year) and of course, having another baby (my daughter is about 15 months). We talked about what sort of wedding we would have, and how many children we would want, we also delved into what sort of hereditary things in the family there were that could be passed on. It was a really big talk, and it was amazing.
So obviously children is not a go ahead right now. We want to buy our own house before that, however if it happens, neither of us is worried. He has a great paying job, we don't want for anything, and I'm about to go back into study.
So I'll leave it as open for you to ask any questions you like. Actually, please do ask questions. I'm bored. SO is at work, and it's raining.
It's amazing to actually be happy, and know you're allowed to be! Thank you very much :)
Quoting mommyof2andTTC:
Best of luck to you both... I'm happy that you're happy finally!
best of luck he sounds like a good man to you and your kid
Thank you :)
Quoting ittyprincess604:well thats amzing! I hope you get everything you want!
Thanks.
Quoting cemcnair:
Welcome! Your new guy sounds amazing! Good luck!
pregnancy police
- AussieArcana
on Feb. 17, 2013 at 7:39 PM