I have a big problem though, and don't know what to do. Here's what happened:
I've been with my boyfriend since late may, around the time she was conceived. I thought that she was his. But we took a paternity test and the results came back negative.
He loves me and the baby, and promises he is going to stick around even though it isn't his, because regardless of blood, he is her father And he knows that.
But the big issue at hand is who the father is. About two weeks before guy (my boyfriend) and I finally got together - after a long time of friend zone - I hooked up with this one guy. We were friends and he was a nice guy - or so he seemed. We were very casual, with the occasional kiss every now and then. But then he started asking for more and I said no every time e. But eventually I got tired of him asking and gave in. We did the deed, despite how uncomfortable it made me feel. It probably lasted all about two minutes. Because I felt so wrong doing it. So I didn't think It Was even possible for pregnancy. A few days after I stopped talking to him, didn't see him again. Five months later, I discovered I was 22 weeks pregnant. Nate didn't even cross my mind.
So now I need to know... should I tell the father that its his? He is not a very good guy at all, he's done a lot of bad things and obviously, he pressured me into sex, which is not something a good person does. He has a history of violence (mentally abusive To His girlfriend - now Ex - of Four years) and He has a lot of money and is extremely intelligent, and I'm afraid if I tell him he is going to fight for custody, and I don't want him to be a part of my daughters life. Her dad is my boyfriend, and his family is her family, even though they aren't blood relatives. He plans to adopt her legally when he turns eighteen this year.
Im Very scared And very upset that This had to happen. What should I do?