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Needing advice bout getting my tubes tide

Posted by on Mar. 24, 2013 at 5:57 AM
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Hello, I am currently 22 years old and will be turning 23 in May. I will also be having my 2ND child in May. So i will have my boy and my girl.. I'm really needing advice about if i should get my tubes tide or not.. I always wanted 3 kids but my body doesn't handle pregnancy well (words even came from my doctor) and i also have other medical problems that by getting my tubes tide might fix or help the problem.. So please help me with any advice you could give. Thank you.

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jojo_star
by on Mar. 24, 2013 at 6:32 AM

We can't tell you what to do, you have to figure that out for yourself, because you have to live with it. Good luck. 

cemcnair
by Courtney on Mar. 24, 2013 at 10:26 AM
Good luck with whatever you decide!
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KylersMom8-16-7
by Gold Member on Mar. 24, 2013 at 1:11 PM
Do your research on the side effects, that's why I decided not to.
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Hanab818
by on Mar. 24, 2013 at 2:46 PM
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this. but i had mine done. For me the benifits of a tubal out weighed the risks and a third child I KNEW we could never afford confortably. just make a pro con list. that might help make your decision for you.


Quoting KylersMom8-16-7:

Do your research on the side effects, that's why I decided not to.


 

eds6619
by Emily on Mar. 24, 2013 at 3:53 PM

 At your age, I wouldn't.  I would wait...what if you change your mind later?

Awesomer28
by on Mar. 24, 2013 at 5:41 PM
Thank u all for ur advice
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liams_mama12
by on Mar. 24, 2013 at 5:47 PM
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I personally would never get my tubes tied but in your position... maybe. It's ultimately your decision. Have you talked to your hubby about it ? I've always wanted 2 kids as well. But Dh wants a big family and even tho being pregnant sucks sometimes, I'm still going to aim for about 3-4 kids.. I'm 22 as well so I know that if I get it "out of the way" now then I wont have to worry about pregnancy in the future. Good luck in whatever youu decide and congrats :)



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starh28momof2
by on Mar. 24, 2013 at 9:23 PM
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If your dr thinks that is dangerous for you (healthwise) to have another one. then don't, get your tubes tied!

you are blessed to have one of each. why take the risk?

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