See what CafeMoms are saying about saving time this holiday season..
Hello my name is Mabel. I have just joined this group today....guess i'm looking for some support. Im 21 and have a 6 week old baby boy ;). I adore him and though this is harder than I could have ever imagine, i know i can do anything since i gave birth to him and that includes raising him on my own. I broke up with the babys father a couple of days after i gave birth as he left me in the hospital by myself the whole two days i was there, knowing I had a rough labor and needed someone to be there ( there is SOOO MUCH more but that was the breaking point). I guess im now just so sad because my son looks just like him. I am done with the pain he causes me and i know will NEVER get back together with him but...its hard because i know im still not over him yet. I'm just asking all the single mothers who arent with their kids father, how did you get over? We have broken up a bunch of times but this time, i know its for real. Its just so painful looking at the child we made together and was suppose to be raising together but he totally let me down....just need to hear it gets better i guess lol