Question for you ladies. I haven't had sex since last November. I'm not with my ex nor do I speak to him but I have been talking to a guy & we are taking things very slow. We have known each other since we were kids so he's been there for me through all of this. Anyways, we both agree if we do decide to have sex or even kiss that it would be after the baby is born because for me it just feels weird having sex with someone else, especially when it's not his baby. But I was curious to know because I have been hearing that if you do have sex while being pregnant it hurts? I'm 23 weeks pregnant & when I went to the doctors they did a vaginal check & whatever they put in me hurt so bad. Would it be the same with sex now that I'm pregnant?