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18, Expecting and Scared

Posted by on Apr. 24, 2013 at 1:20 AM
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This week my life changed completely

I was a party girl who was just having fun being 18 and free. Ive been dating this guy for about 3 months and just recently found out im pregnant with his baby. At the moment he has no job, no car and is not attending school. I dont love him and this was completely unexpected. Since we found out he has been job hunting every day and promising me he will step up and support me and the baby. He tells me he loves me and i believe him, however im terrified that if i put my faith in him and move in with him he'll end up letting me down. I want to believe he means his promises but i feel so alone and unsure about everything. 

It was hard for me to even find the stregnth to keep this baby, but ive always been against abortion and i dont think Id have it in me to adopt the baby away. Im determined to save as much as i can before this December when the baby is due and at this point id like to find other girls who can relate to me. My friends are great but they just dont fully understand how im feeling with all of this. 

Im staying strong and reminding myself that once my baby is here it will all be worth the stress and tears. 

Any one with advice or that can relate?

by on Apr. 24, 2013 at 1:20 AM
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kaylaybaby666
by on Apr. 24, 2013 at 1:22 AM
Wait til he gets a job and keeps it for a couple months and see that he tries. If he doesn't, don't be with him. When is your baby due?
NataliaLinny
by on Apr. 24, 2013 at 1:28 AM
1 mom liked this
I'm 18 and expecting too:))
QuillaBee
by on Apr. 24, 2013 at 1:28 AM

Yeah im using this 9 months as his test honestly. 

Im not sure on the exact date but im due sometime mid december this year. 

How far along are you?

kaylaybaby666
by on Apr. 24, 2013 at 1:29 AM
Im 7 weeks today. Due December 10. Im 21. How far along on you


Quoting QuillaBee:

Yeah im using this 9 months as his test honestly. 

Im not sure on the exact date but im due sometime mid december this year. 

How far along are you?


NataliaLinny
by on Apr. 24, 2013 at 1:29 AM
I'm due December 20th and i am 5 weeks 3days


Quoting QuillaBee:

Yeah im using this 9 months as his test honestly. 

Im not sure on the exact date but im due sometime mid december this year. 

How far along are you?


QuillaBee
by on Apr. 24, 2013 at 1:30 AM

Im only about a month right now. I just found out a few days ago so im still a bit in shock honestly. 

Quoting kaylaybaby666:

Im 7 weeks today. Due December 10. Im 21. How far along on you


Quoting QuillaBee:

Yeah im using this 9 months as his test honestly. 

Im not sure on the exact date but im due sometime mid december this year. 

How far along are you?




ikeepfaith
by on Apr. 24, 2013 at 1:31 AM
1 mom liked this
I'm 20 and due november 15
kaylaybaby666
by on Apr. 24, 2013 at 1:32 AM
Hopefully all goes well for you though. It can be tough. I became a mom at 18, it's hard but it will get better


Quoting QuillaBee:

Im only about a month right now. I just found out a few days ago so im still a bit in shock honestly. 


Quoting kaylaybaby666:

Im 7 weeks today. Due December 10. Im 21. How far along on you





Quoting QuillaBee:

Yeah im using this 9 months as his test honestly. 

Im not sure on the exact date but im due sometime mid december this year. 

How far along are you?







kaylaybaby666
by on Apr. 24, 2013 at 1:32 AM
Yay another December mom!


Quoting NataliaLinny:

I'm due December 20th and i am 5 weeks 3days




Quoting QuillaBee:

Yeah im using this 9 months as his test honestly. 

Im not sure on the exact date but im due sometime mid december this year. 

How far along are you?



NataliaLinny
by on Apr. 24, 2013 at 1:37 AM
Yea hahaha


Quoting kaylaybaby666:

Yay another December mom!




Quoting NataliaLinny:

I'm due December 20th and i am 5 weeks 3days






Quoting QuillaBee:

Yeah im using this 9 months as his test honestly. 

Im not sure on the exact date but im due sometime mid december this year. 

How far along are you?




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