I hate when people say that your only 19 and its going to be hard. I have a 3 year old step daughter. A 9 month old little boy and I just found out I am a month along with another. Yes, it may be hard but people are so rude and judgmental. My hubby and I take care of ourselves and our family. We do not depend on anyone else.. This baby was not planned but it still pisses me off that everyone judges young moms. Some of us take responsibility and are ready for kids! Does anyone else have the problem of being judged because you are so Young?