hi, my name is jasmine, im 17 y.o. so nobody knows im pregnant, and im pretty sure im 4.5 months, (20 weeks) and im really against telling my parents, and my mom was gonna take me to get an IUD inserted into my uterus as a birth control. we had to wait for my period, i told her i had it, and we're going to the gynocologist on tuesday. (today is saturday) and the problem is, im pregnant!! so im nervous, what if i just tell my doctor to keep my stuff confidential and go ahead and tell him im pregnant so i can have a prenatal check-up?? i havent had one yet!! ): im really nervous, and i think my mom suspects im pregnant. will i be safe to tell my doctor?? will the bill show up and say im pregnant?? what if he prescribes me prenatal vitamins?? how do i go about this?? and again, i really cant confide in my mom, because she's really neglective, and im sure wont help at all, she'll only make problems for me and raise my stress levels. she'll gossip to the whole family, and my family will talk S*** to me, especially my dad, not to mention ill be kicked out the house. anyways, theres no way in heck i want to face that just yet. so.. what do i do?? do i ditch my mom and the gynocologist?? or do i go and get a prenatal check-up??
******* thank you all so much for the extra support and push, im definitely going to the gynocologist, today actually, for my baby's health, i dont want to put him or her in danger because im scared. thanks again everyone especially the ones who messaged me. im going today to get a check-up and hopefully prenatal vitamins.