Hi everyone, My name is Stephanie, I am 18. I have a 2 year old son Janson, his father hasnt been around at all. He moved to Florida when our son was 2 weeks old, and now has a new fiance who has 2 of her own children. He never asks to talk to his son, hasnt called him over 6 months, hasnt seen him since February of this year. And lately I've been considering changing his last name to mine. Since he doesnt even know his dad and he doesnt even want to be here for him, but im just confused if i should change it now and get it over with, but then i have to get everything changed, or if i should wait until he is a teenager and ask him if he wants my last name. but again, have to get everything changed and he'd already be in school. so anyone have any thoughts???