Well I am 18 years old and just had my daughter in April. Her father & I are not together. He is too self-centered. We would always argue about money which I am ending tomorrow morning in court. I am finally taking him to court for child support, one less thing we have to argue about. He thinks that just because he has a job and makes money that its the only thing he has to do. Which its not, he needs to also be there for Cecilia. She needs him as a father emotionally & physically, not just financially. Well anyways the point of this post is for myself and every other young mother out there to vent about how hard it is to find a decent man. I want a man who will love my daughter as his own. Also, someone who has respect for woman and their elders. Someone I can always
laugh with and love. Someone who loves the whole me, not just bits & pieces. But with me being so young, no boy in my age range wants anything to do with a child. Its so hard & frustrating. I just want to find someone Cecilia & I can settle down with. I start college this fall and would like a place of my own but dont make enough money to afford one. If I could find a guy, I'm sure we together could afford a place of our own. I recieve financial help from the state for Cecilia so its not like I would make him pay for anything of hers. Uggh .. its just sooo frustrating. Everyone says you dont need a man in your life .. but really, its soo lonely without that significant other. Let me know what you think, how you solve(d) this, what you think I should do, any type of advice would be thoughtful.
on Jun. 27, 2007 at 9:54 AM