okay so going out there a few times after having my son hasn't been successful, but ready again to try. i can't get out much, and when i try i feel like it's a waste of time to find someone in a bar, they're all cocky jerks. but thats not my question, my question is do you think holding back from saying i have a child is bad? i mean i dont want to scare guys off again by saying im a mom, I dont want a guy to feel like hes under pressure to be a father figure or get serious with me quickly. I also dont want to be considered an easy lay if i decide to tell a guy i have a child, thats happened to me once already. any advice to meeting guys and what to do when i start dating????
on Jul. 12, 2007 at 9:17 PM