WELCOME TO OUR GROUP!!! :)

We're Glad you're here! We are a very close group. We welcome everyone with open arms and hope you will soon feel like you are a member of our family. Please don't lurk. Jump in and post, you will soon have many new friends.

Add our group's homepage to your friends list to get important updates (and to easily contact admins) This is a new page so be patient with us as we build it.

http://www.cafemom.com/home/thirtybeyond

Forum or Posting Rules:

When posting in the group you must use font 3 or 4 and a dark color like black or dark blue.  Some of our members have eye problems and using small font and light colors makes reading for them a real chore.  Please be considerate and use the larger font and dark colors so that we all can join in on the fun. 

1. This group is for fun. Please remember that sometimes your sense of humor will not match someone else's. So if you don't find it funny, please find something else that you think is.

2. We want everyone to be comfortable here, so we have created a sticky post where we want you to advertise other groups you are a part of.

3. Since we have the post for advertising other groups we do not allow you to post links to other groups within your signature. We will remove any post that has links in them.

4. If you come into conflict with another person, please report it to the admins by using the abuse report function.

5. Should there be a problem then you will receive one warning only.

6. If we need to remove you from the group it is our policy to delete and block your account.

7. There is an automatic filter on this group. If you haven't logged into the group within 90 days you will be removed from the group but not blocked. You are welcome to re-apply.

8. If we discover that you are using multiple profiles we will remove all profiles from the group. We do this as we feel it is not fair to other members.

9.If you bash, name call or are blatently disrespectful you will not receive a warning you will simply be removed.

10. If you want to quote other replies, that's great, but after quoting each other 3 times, stop and just start replying - LOL - everyone will know who your directing your latest response to. 

11. All rules are subject to change at any time.

Chat Rules:

1.RULE ONE! Chat is for big girls wearing their big girl panties. It gets naughty and there WILL BE LANGUAGE AND ADULT SUBJECTS. If it makes you uncomfortable DO NOT ENTER!

RULE TWO! During chat if you are inactive for more than 5mins you CAN (you might not, but you Can) be kicked out, repeat offenders will be blocked from chat for (a week, a month, a year, indefinitely on a case by case basis..)This is to protect our active members.

RULE  THREE!!! Chat, just like this group, is a lot like vegas, what happens there STAYS THERE! And if anyone is sharing with other people what is said in chat (or if we have reason to believe that this MIGHT be the case) they will be banned permanently. With no prior warnings.

RULE FOUR!!! DO NOT SPAM THE CHAT WITH ADS OF NEW GROUPS OR OTHER TYPES OF PROCCESSED MEAT FOODS OR YOU WILL BE KICKED OUT OF CHAT!