Hello, my name is Tiffany. We have always wanted to adopt, but th years slipped by and after 5 years of trying and many losses we were blessed with 2 miracles that doctors said would never happen. We still talked about adopting, but the costs and us moving so much (military) made the prospect slim. Then 3 weeks ago we were contacted by a birth mother. Her and her husband already have 2 kids and are unable to take on another child. My husband and I are scared. We have of course heard the horror stories about birth parents changing their minds at birth. We live in a different country at the moment so for us this would be a huge leap of faith so we are praying for guidance and for the doors to open to the right path whatever that may be. Next week we see our lawyer for legal guidance, but my real issues are emotional. The potential for joy is enormous, as is the potential for heartbreak. She is only in her 3rd month, and I am so scared she will change her mind after months and months of preparing. I have 2 small children along for the ride, and will have to juggle the emotional issues, along with deployments and raising a 1 year old and 3 year old, adoption across country borders that require relocating to the USA for months to finish adoption and getting passport and birth certificate, etc. It is scary, and I am going on faith alone. I know I am far from the first to go through this, so some advice would be great lol!