We just got the best yet scariest call lat week. One year ago we adopted our amazing son, We met our BM and BF and their families when she was 2 months prego. We have a great relationship with our birth-family..all of them, and still talk to this day. BUT we had a very exsasting 7months with our BM. She drank and smoked and even tested positive for Marijuana during her pregnancy. Our son was her second child her fist is being raised by her mother. Even though he is great we still spent her pregnancy worried sick. It was a very hard time for my husband and I, we got through it but we fought a lot.
Our birth mom got her tubes cauterized after the c-section of our son. Well long story short..she is pregnant!! Her egg found a hole in her tubes. She called us to ask us if we want another child. We do but we were talking about adopting out of country...But we are going to do it. We know what a blessing this will be but we are scared about the stress and now more with a 1YR old. Wish us luck...
ALSO with that being said we have our final court date Sept. 24 for Liam. Like I said this had been a very long process but worth it. Pray as we close one and that we find the strength to start over. Thanks for reading.... Below is my husband and Liam...Two loves of my live!!!
Thanks for reading....
WOW!!! That is amazing! I'm wishing you guys the very best!!!
Heather, Kevin, and Austin Too!
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You adoption story sounds a lot like mine. I have dreams about BM being prego again and asking us to adopt her DD. IDK why it is always a girl in my dreams but it is. IDK if I could go through it again or not. It was very difficult the first time around. I am glad that you found the strenght to do it again.
I hope she acts better during this pregnancy! Congratulations on the new little one.
OH WOW!!!! I SURE HOPE she is MORE responsible this go around and does NOT drink or smoke ANYTHING while pregnant!!! Your son is BEAUTIFUL!!! That was VERY SWEET of her to think to ask you guys if you want her baby!!! HOPEFULLY, she will get her tubes done AGAIN after this baby and HOPEFULLY, they will do a MUCH BETTER job!!!!
I will keep you guys in thought and prayer!! Hopefully, this will NOT be as rough of a time for you guys as it was last time.
Best wishes!!! Maybe this baby will be a GIRL!! Then you will have ONE OF EACH!!! : )
When do you tell them?
- sunnymay
on Sep. 9, 2009 at 3:34 PM