I married a man that both my boys seemed to like, BEFORE we got married. Once the deed was done it seems my boys, especially my youngest, just cannot get along with their step dad. I constantly feel more like a referee than his wife or their mother. I dread being in a family setting becaue some... MORE

I married a man that both my boys seemed to like, BEFORE we got married. Once the deed was done it seems my boys, especially my youngest, just cannot get along with their step dad. I constantly feel more like a referee than his wife or their mother. I dread being in a family setting becaue some one might look at someone wrong; or say something wrong. Then, to top it all off, I have the ex, my sons' father, telling them they dont have to listen to their step dad. Now that my oldest has moved out at the age of 21, it is just my youngest who the dad infuences. I really would lilke to meet other moms who may be going through the same or similar situations.