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What's ur take on this?

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camNkaysmom

on Jul. 5, 2011 at 5:20 PM

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If you were in the same room with your DH and he'd rather get online and look at porn, would you feel wanted or desired by him?

Posted by

camNkaysmom

on Jul. 5, 2011 at 5:20 PM

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Hottmomma607

Group Mod - Trica on Jul. 5, 2011 at 5:30 PM

No he wouldnt do that! But I'm guessing if I wasn't feeling desired or desirable in general so no I would feel wanted!!

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ksbondgirl

Silver Member on Jul. 5, 2011 at 6:42 PM

inmybizz

Gold Member on Jul. 5, 2011 at 8:44 PM

No, i wouldn't have any negative feelings about myself..I would wonder what's up with my husband if this was a common occurrence..

sweetiepie81

Passion Fruit on Jul. 5, 2011 at 9:24 PM

Agreed! Knowing me i'd go over to watch with him & if he got upset or asked me to move it would become a bigger problem!!

Quoting inmybizz:

No, i wouldn't have any negative feelings about myself..I would wonder what's up with my husband if this was a common occurrence..

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BAPmomof2

Member on Jul. 5, 2011 at 9:36 PM

Quoting sweetiepie81:

Agreed! Knowing me i'd go over to watch with him & if he got upset or asked me to move it would become a bigger problem!!

Quoting inmybizz:

No, i wouldn't have any negative feelings about myself..I would wonder what's up with my husband if this was a common occurrence..

This!

earthtone

Bronze Member on Jul. 5, 2011 at 11:07 PM

Definitely NOT wanted nor would I feel desirable.

Something is wrong when your man wants to look at other naked women on the computer while you are in the same room with him.

bossygrand

Bronze Member on Jul. 6, 2011 at 8:59 AM

I would feel weirded out first of all bc if he is doing that n front of me he has some issues and second i would say f him! I know i gots the goods haha..my dh watches porn if i want to watch it, i know that seems unbelievable but he knows he gots the goods too haha

"I stand for something, so don't think i will fall for anything"

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zmama22

Bronze Member on Jul. 6, 2011 at 10:11 AM

Quoting inmybizz:

No, i wouldn't have any negative feelings about myself..I would wonder what's up with my husband if this was a common occurrence..

i have no issues with porn except when it is used as a replacement for the real thing, which seems the case here. he might develop some performance issues if he needs porn for stimulation.