So, my girlfriend shows up at my door today.. 38 HOT! Her husband had lied to her about his whereabouts.. ( a lil background.. It's Homecoming here and I live in a college town.. about 20,000 people.. old friends etc etc.. )
Anyway, he said he was going to his father's house but he was tailgating with his single friends. She received several texts and calls asking where she was ... and why she wasn't there with him.. She was upset because he lied.. Not because he was THERE but because he LIED.. Apparently he has a tendency to stretch the truth ALOT... They have been together 14 years or so.. and he didn't start doing it until a few years ago.. and it's nothing ever major ( well not to me) but to her the fact that he is lying about nothing makes her question everything that he does..She cried to me that she is tired of it and wants to leave him.. and I just listened..
Is lying ( no matter how big or small) worth ending a marriage over if you have talked about it over and over?