Our Neighbor

[Latrice429]

I posted this in another group this morning. Now, I want to see how my sisters feel about this.

Last night my husband and I went to a club to celebrate the birthday of our neighbor.  This neighbor is also my husband's frat brother. The neighbor was having a good time and was drunk.  So, as I was on the dance floor dancing with my husband, my husband steps away to ask the DJ to play something....at that moment our neighbor puts his hand on my stomach and back (I'm 109lbs, small chick), then he proceeds to move his hand up to my BREAST! I thought to myself, this mofo just felt me up!!!  I was offended, I did not like it.

I will not tell my husband. I know he would just say the neighbor was drunk and did not mean anything by it.

What would you ladies do?

[supermom664]

I would have slapped the shit out of him...and told dh after the fact

[Believe86]

Ive had a similar thing happen to me one time my hubby and I went out. There was a drunk white guy who felt me up. I told my hubby and he approched the guy. He did not scream or yell, he was stern and affirmative. It was a turn on, because he stood up for me. Your situation is tricky though, because this is his friend we are talking about. You say he may just sum it up to him being drunk? How would you want for your hubby to react?

[Latrice429]

I would want my husband to own up to what his frat brother did as being wrong and disrespectful.  I don't want it to be any friction but at least say hey if that shit happens again, you tell me and I will handle it.

[Latrice429]

Girl, I know, right! It happened so quick until I think I was in a state of shock.

I swear I was on the dance floor thinking "did this mofo just feel my breast?"  I was like on no he didn't. Next time I will grope him and say I was just drunk. I'm kidding.

Seriously, it was not cool.

[Hottmomma607]

I'm curious of why post your weight&size? Some men are men pigs like that! Regardless of size! Men can still over power a woman of any size or drunk touch in your case. So anywho! I would have gave him a one,two!! End of that! One slap his hand away from my stomach if he put his hand on back then a second slap at his hand! Then I would have told my DH that his frat brother needed some water&to sit his ass down somewhere!

[Hottmomma607]

LOL Some men don't know how to handle themselves drunk or sober!

Quoting Latrice429:

Girl, I know, right! It happened so quick until I think I was in a state of shock.

I swear I was on the dance floor thinking "did this mofo just feel my breast?"  I was like on no he didn't. Next time I will grope him and say I was just drunk. I'm kidding.

Seriously, it was not cool.

[Kandie7113]

Yeah he wouldve got cussed out. Drunk or not he knew what he was doing.

[Believe86]

This!!

Quoting Kandie7113:

Yeah he wouldve got cussed out. Drunk or not he knew what he was doing.

[gem618]

I think your husband needs to know what happened.  If a female tried something like that with him, you would want to know right?

[truly.a.taurus]

I think i would've let his friend have it. That was out of line and he would've known exactly how i felt when he tried that mess!!