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 Who are you most critical of? (If you say, ‘No one. I only worry about myself,’ think again…and if your answer is the same, what are you so hard on yourself about?)

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Kandie7113
by Gold Member on Feb. 12, 2012 at 12:56 AM
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Honestly I'm hard on myself about pleasing others & not myself. I'm also mad at myself for always letting ppl get to me specially my ex.
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Bunsmommy
by Platinum Member on Feb. 12, 2012 at 1:30 AM
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I'm hard on myself about being successful and I'm a perfectionist so when things don't come out the way I visualize them I lose it!
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.Peaches.
by Le Chatte Noire on Feb. 12, 2012 at 1:44 AM
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I've often been told I'm way too hard on myself, and that I'm my own worst enemy.
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Delila12
by Silver Member on Feb. 12, 2012 at 1:53 AM
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Idk, I can't really say I'm hard on anyone. I guess I would be critical of myself, especially now that I'm a mom. I have to be conscious of every decision I make now.
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SoFlyLyLy
by Member on Feb. 12, 2012 at 1:56 AM
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I'm a perfectionist so I'm hardest on myself. I am very critical on myself when it comes to school. But I just completed my Master's so now I'm just hard on myself about work. I'm a teacher so I want my kids to do their very best and when they don't I blame myself. I am somewhat hard on some of my brothers and sisters-- just cause I know they are capable of more than what they are doing. I hold them to higher standards.

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Mishandia
by Bronze Member on Feb. 12, 2012 at 2:37 AM
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 I'm hard on myself for a variety of reasons. 1)Being  a black woman I must always strive for excellence. 2)My kids see what I do so there is no room for failure. 3)I owe it to my parents to be the best.

leftylefty
by Member on Feb. 12, 2012 at 11:36 AM
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I think myself too. I can't list the ways I beat myself up lol. Who would come in second? (who you are critical of)

smiley83
by Bronze Member on Feb. 12, 2012 at 11:52 AM
This right here

Quoting Bunsmommy:

I'm hard on myself about being successful and I'm a perfectionist so when things don't come out the way I visualize them I lose it!
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smiley83
by Bronze Member on Feb. 12, 2012 at 11:55 AM
Dang, this too! Lol

Quoting .Peaches.:

I've often been told I'm way too hard on myself, and that I'm my own worst enemy.
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by Queen of CM on Feb. 12, 2012 at 2:04 PM

myself. I am a perfectionist and am critical mostly of my own actions.

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