Discrimination on CM, could it be? I should report their racist tails...

[2Jbabies]

 In the Confessions group it's okay for people to call each other bitches, dumb, stupid, etc., because of a comment that's made, but as soon as I said, "I feel sorry for your children."  THAT was breaking the rules.  I received a message stating that I broke a rule. WTH?  I'm like clearly there is some sort of discrimination, because these heffa's say all kinds of things, so how is that any worse than the things they say?  I must've said that to an Admin or something, I don't know.  What don't I know about this site?  Hidden racism or what? 

[LandonsMommy26]

Cafemom is operated by white people. They make their rules for who they want to make them for. They allow racist post's and comments towards any race except white people but will try to ban you for calling someone an idiot, b*tch, etc. They are backwards, they know and show it but they don't give a d*mn.

[2Jbabies]

 This is why we always have to create our own stuff.  That was plain stupid.  I didn't cuss her out for sending me that message, but I did ask why it's okay for them to say all that and I can't say that I feel sorry for your children. SMH.

Quoting LandonsMommy26:

Cafemom is operated by white people. They make their rules for who they want to make them for. They allow racist post's and comments towards any race except white people but will try to ban you for calling someone an idiot, b*tch, etc. They are backwards, they know and show it but they don't give a d*mn.

 

[Bunsmommy]

Shocked you didn't get the patented "don't question our rules" message. You can generally spot the cm admins bc they have names like "cafemom Becky" not going to say what my thoughts were when I first saw that.......also a lot of times if someone flags or complains about your comment they won't investigate for themselves they just issue at a "teacher's not".
Nevertheless, it is the internet, a sordid and nasty reflection of the hateful world we exist in and yes, most ignorant racist shit is allowed to fly.....until someone else is throwing it!

Quoting 2Jbabies:

 This is why we always have to create our own stuff.  That was plain stupid.  I didn't cuss her out for sending me that message, but I did ask why it's okay for them to say all that and I can't say that I feel sorry for your children. SMH.

Quoting LandonsMommy26:

Cafemom is operated by white people. They make their rules for who they want to make them for. They allow racist post's and comments towards any race except white people but will try to ban you for calling someone an idiot, b*tch, etc. They are backwards, they know and show it but they don't give a d*mn.

 

[ebbierowe]

I do know you aren't supposed to mention people's kids in a negative way. I know you technically didn't but that is probably the angle they are taking. If you are arguing or disagreeing with someone and mention their kids I think you get in trouble.

[ebbierowe]

or someone could have flagged your comment..

[sweetiepie81]

I am beyond sick & tired of y'all going in that damn confessions group & running back over here crying bout they racist! I mean damn we have said it before quit going into that damn group! All their topics seems to be race related. If you go there put on your big girl panties & keep it moving! This shit is just ridiculous! Why seem shock when you pretty much KNOW the deal! Urgh.... This just my vent on the issue.... Carry on...

[CoolRelax]

Quoting sweetiepie81:

I am beyond sick & tired of y'all going in that damn confessions group & running back over here crying bout they racist! I mean damn we have said it before quit going into that damn group! All their topics seems to be race related. If you go there put on your big girl panties & keep it moving! This shit is just ridiculous! Why seem shock when you pretty much KNOW the deal! Urgh.... This just my vent on the issue.... Carry on...

Pretty much - I'll drop in the Confessions group but I a lot of times I'm ready to go IN and say to myself, "Fug it, it's not worth it."  You can't fix stupid.

[2Jbabies]

It wasn't a race topic. It was about peanut allergies

Quoting sweetiepie81:

I am beyond sick & tired of y'all going in that damn confessions group & running back over here crying bout they racist! I mean damn we have said it before quit going into that damn group! All their topics seems to be race related. If you go there put on your big girl panties & keep it moving! This shit is just ridiculous! Why seem shock when you pretty much KNOW the deal! Urgh.... This just my vent on the issue.... Carry on...

[2Jbabies]

True! So true!

Quoting CoolRelax:

Quoting sweetiepie81:

I am beyond sick & tired of y'all going in that damn confessions group & running back over here crying bout they racist! I mean damn we have said it before quit going into that damn group! All their topics seems to be race related. If you go there put on your big girl panties & keep it moving! This shit is just ridiculous! Why seem shock when you pretty much KNOW the deal! Urgh.... This just my vent on the issue.... Carry on...

Pretty much - I'll drop in the Confessions group but I a lot of times I'm ready to go IN and say to myself, "Fug it, it's not worth it."  You can't fix stupid.

[.Peaches.]

This site is full of it girl, get used to it.

The thing is, a lot of those ignorant bitches get away with hiding behind a computer screen, because you can bet they would NEVER say the things that they say here in real life- they don't have the balls. Getting to hide behind a computer screen is their cover, so they feel like they can just go crazy and not give a flyin flip about the way it might offend someone else. Some of them just don't care that they've offended someone, some just do it for the shock value.

I especially hate the trolls that run up in here ocassionally, make a post to set some shit off, then disappear, but that's the unfortunate circumstance of this group being public. I wish it was private again.

But you already know what it is going into those groups. My advice? Just stay out. Is it really worth letting a bunch of stupidity mess up your CM experience?