Would you be willing?

[GoddessNDaRuff]

Okay because D and I are strange we have strange coversations and this was the pillow talk from last night LOL

You and your S/O get a divorce but he is still a good father. He stays current on chilld support, spends time with the kids, goes to their events, you all find a way to do family holidays with all of you involved, etc. He's decided that he will not remarry or enter another long term relationship. Then he decides he wants another child. So he comes to you and tells you that he feels that you are a great mother and partner (in co-parenting) and he would like it if you would have another child with him so all of his children have the same mother and get to grow up together with the same values etc. He says he understands if you don't want to have sex with him so he is willing to pay for insemination and to pay all costs for the pregnancy, including the bills in your home during the duration of the pregnancy plus any hikes in bills caused by having the new baby, and for all of the baby stuff. He's willing to move you into his home or stay at your home in order to there to help with the baby at night and to help with the other children. You are not currently involved or looking into a relationship.

Would you do it?

[luv_my_xiya]

Hell no

[mamaofficer]

If i wanted another child, especially if u already know what kind of daddy he is.

[1214Choc]

I wouldn't have another baby for my husband, so my answer is no.

But the bigger question (at least for me, anyway) is, what man says that? What man actually wants to increase his responsibilities AND child support payments. I don't think this man exists in real life. LOL

[GoddessNDaRuff]

Quoting 1214Choc:

I wouldn't have another baby for my husband, so my answer is no.

But the bigger question (at least for me, anyway) is, what man says that? What man actually wants to increase his responsibilities AND child support payments. I don't think this man exists in real life. LOL

That's what I told D when he brought up this scenario LOL but he's insistent that such men exist. I said point 'em out.

[Hottmomma607]

Probably not!! LOL

[Hottmomma607]

And further more! Someone can't seriously say out right I will not enter another relationship again! You never know? I mean marriage is one thing! Some folks absolutely won't get married again! But to know for certain that you wouldn't?

[truly.a.taurus]

I voted no. My brother went through this with his son's mom. She asked and wanted kids to have the same parents. He said no and she ended up pregnant by another guy within a year. I thought this was a strange request but the person making the request is bold to say the least.

[tpayne87]

 Sure it's easier to get preggo and all but US women have to go threw the emotions and feelings and all that in carrying & raising a child.. What if he doesnt come to his senses or responsibilities.. You'll look like the dumb one at the end  of the day.. But im sorry ill pass!

[SexyDiva19]

Same here. I dont see a problem with it. My question would be though if I'm good enough to have another child by you, why am I not good enough to give a 2nd chance and talk things out.

It would depend on the reason for the divorce in the first place though so...

Quoting mamaofficer:

If i wanted another child, especially if u already know what kind of daddy he is.

[tamikadorch26]

No. There was a reason why he is the ex husband.