When do you stop????

[Tish_Hughes]

My ex and I decided that I will be meeting his brother so that I can get my daughter back (he sent her to Virginia when he should have just kept her). The ex told me to contact his brother and me and him would discuss the details. I don't drive out of here until Tuesday, so I was gonna contact him Sunday or Monday. Well, here comes their mom (50 something years old) telling me that I wont meet up with her son until she knows when and where me and the ex bil will be meeting up. Now this is not a child. The brother is 23 years old!! My ex is 25. Who at that age needs approval from their parents? This woman is always meddling in her son's affairs. Me & the ex agreed on something and as our daughter's parents, what we say goes. I don't know what this woman's deal is. Maybe its because they're both adopted she feels like she has to "protect" them, but seriously, they are adults. I would be so embarrassed if my mom were like that. After a certain age, I don't expect to meddle in my daughter's affairs.

[Hottmomma607]

She sounds like a busy-body!!

[Tish_Hughes]

I'll busy her body with my foot up her ass if she doesn't mind her business.

[Bunsmommy]

SMH, and to think at first I thought she was a quiet little sweetie! HA!
Why does she have to have an account of where you all are meeting? Is she going to come and clean his nose and wipe his butt too? If the three of you have worked out something she needs to get her a hobby and go work on it while minding her damn business!

[Tish_Hughes]

Not quiet when it comes to my kiddo. She's a effing dumdum and needs to get over herself. I don't understand what she's jumping into the equation for anyway. She should have meddled sooner, maybe then her son wouldn't be in jail. That's what I should have told her, if she wanna mingle, she can go mingle her damn son out of jail before she finds herself in there right along with him for kidnapping.

Quoting Bunsmommy:

SMH, and to think at first I thought she was a quiet little sweetie! HA!

Why does she have to have an account of where you all are meeting? Is she going to come and clean his nose and wipe his butt too? If the three of you have worked out something she needs to get her a hobby and go work on it while minding her damn business!

[tthomas87]

Your ex needs to let her know none of this concerns her and to mind her business. She just needs someone to put her in her place

[Mishandia]

The EX needs to check his momma.

[hopealways4019]

I'm still going to be in my adult children business.

[GoldenBrown82]

 Exactly!! She needs to go sit in the corner and shut the hell up!!

Quoting Tish_Hughes:

Not quiet when it comes to my kiddo. She's a effing dumdum and needs to get over herself. I don't understand what she's jumping into the equation for anyway. She should have meddled sooner, maybe then her son wouldn't be in jail. That's what I should have told her, if she wanna mingle, she can go mingle her damn son out of jail before she finds herself in there right along with him for kidnapping.

Quoting Bunsmommy:

SMH, and to think at first I thought she was a quiet little sweetie! HA!

Why does she have to have an account of where you all are meeting? Is she going to come and clean his nose and wipe his butt too? If the three of you have worked out something she needs to get her a hobby and go work on it while minding her damn business!

 

[bxbsmommy]

Good thing you aren't my mama. One of the first things my mom good me is that your relationship and marriage is exactly that...YOURS and no one else's.

That mom needs to mind her business. She's not doing them any good by trying to control their lives.

Quoting hopealways4019:

I'm still going to be in my adult children business.

[ikesmommy]

Everyone is not "grown" at 23...23 just makes them of age.

But that is something you need to take up with your ex. Why is the mom calling you? She should call her son.