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How can you get more child support, if you cannot prove how much a man makes?

Posted by on Feb. 22, 2012 at 7:50 AM
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My friend has 3 kids, and her child support is $117.00 a week. He makes more money now, but she cannot prove it. What can she do?
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supermom664
by Platinum Member on Feb. 22, 2012 at 7:53 AM
I don't no anything about cs but here's a bump
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supermom664
by Platinum Member on Feb. 22, 2012 at 7:55 AM
But that sounds like a small amount for 3 kids but I guess it depends on his take home pay
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atlshine
by Bronze Member on Feb. 22, 2012 at 7:55 AM
How does she know he makes more money now?
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Stormywaters03
by Kind of A Big Deal on Feb. 22, 2012 at 8:09 AM

 She can't.  That's why some men work under the table...because when dealing with courts, if, when they try and pull up his information it shows he's making minimum wage (and not that extra whatever he gets on the side for helping afterhours or whatever) they'll go off minimum wage. 

Maybe she can tell the courts what he's doing and maybe they'll pull his tax returns?  I've never heard of that happening, but I'm just brainstorming for ya.

sweetiepie81
by Passion Fruit on Feb. 22, 2012 at 9:05 AM
This

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How does she know he makes more money now?
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PurplWildFlower
by Bronze Member on Feb. 22, 2012 at 9:10 AM

 Well Im in a similiar situation.  Ds's biological does not even pay cs and he is self employed (owns a remolding company) and I know he makes more than what he puts and I can not prove it unless the court summons his taxes.  Even then, self employed/business owners rig up their info for the IRS---so there is really not much she can do (if he is self employed). 

mamaofficer
by Bronze Member on Feb. 22, 2012 at 9:28 AM
He told her basically, yeah their are men like that.


Quoting sweetiepie81:

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How does she know he makes more money now?

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sweetiepie81
by Passion Fruit on Feb. 22, 2012 at 9:54 AM
Then she S.O.L! Unless he got a raise on his job the courts don't care. It must be documented. She can petition the court to revise her award. She needs to be careful just in case there was a reduction in his hours & they reduce her award.

Quoting mamaofficer:

He told her basically, yeah their are men like that.




Quoting sweetiepie81:

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How does she know he makes more money now?

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mamaofficer
by Bronze Member on Feb. 22, 2012 at 9:59 AM
So it is what it is, if she has to move to make more money and support her kids then so be it. Problem Solved, end of story!!!!


Quoting sweetiepie81:

Then she S.O.L! Unless he got a raise on his job the courts don't care. It must be documented. She can petition the court to revise her award. She needs to be careful just in case there was a reduction in his hours & they reduce her award.



Quoting mamaofficer:

He told her basically, yeah their are men like that.






Quoting sweetiepie81:

This







Quoting atlshine:

How does she know he makes more money now?


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sweetiepie81
by Passion Fruit on Feb. 22, 2012 at 10:25 AM
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Can she get FS & medicaid? Does she work?

Quoting mamaofficer:

So it is what it is, if she has to move to make more money and support her kids then so be it. Problem Solved, end of story!!!!




Quoting sweetiepie81:

Then she S.O.L! Unless he got a raise on his job the courts don't care. It must be documented. She can petition the court to revise her award. She needs to be careful just in case there was a reduction in his hours & they reduce her award.





Quoting mamaofficer:

He told her basically, yeah their are men like that.








Quoting sweetiepie81:

This









Quoting atlshine:

How does she know he makes more money now?


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