For months, I've been pushing a budget on my daughters father, and he's been pushing back.....so I gave up I pay my portion of the bills and no longer worry about his...I have $100 saved up (not a lot, but compared to being in the negative the last few months, I'm doing good)
well, now, he has the light bill due, and the car insurance...he has no money left in his account and just found out today that his aunt died. He doesn't have enough money to go to the funeral and doesn't want to ask anyone in his family to pay his way. ( prideful smh)
I mean, I feel badly, but I've bailed him out of situations he's put himself in and lost a few thousand worth of savings..now that I'm starting to save a small amount of money ( I'm really not saving anything because I still have to pay taxes lol) I'm not going to bail him out..if the electicty gets turned off, I've made arrangements to stay with a friend....I just can't keep bailing him out of things...especially when I try to prevent it in the first place and he fights me about EVERYTHING.
I feel bad...but am I wrong?.. I haven't said anything to him. When he told me she died and he didn't have money for the funeral I was just like oh..(in the past, I've been the one to offer to help him, but, I feel like he just EXPECTS me to help him now)