|I Divorced My Husband - Now I Want Him Back|
Dear Steve and Shirley, When my husband and I were engaged, I found out, after returning from travels, that he cheated on me. I took the ring off and called off our engagement. I calmly told him that I am not in for this kind of relationship and since you are still searching, go ahead and find what you are looking for. Well, he apologized (after not speaking to me for a week) and said he wants me in his life and he is sure about this. We stayed engaged for about 5 months and then got married. Everything was going great! I mean great in every sense of the word (at least as I saw it). He has not indicated otherwise either. Anyway, just this past July 2011, I found out (after missing monies from our accounts) he has been on dating sites, cheating, etc. I called him on it and guess what, that was the end of our marriage. He did not even try to discuss the issues. I got the silent treatment and he moved to a different room in the house, where he was busy on chat lines, sex chats, etc. I tried to reach out to him several times to see if we can discuss this as adults so that we each know the deal. He won't communicate with me. felt extremely ignored and belittled and filed for divorce and got it. He signed the divorce papers like nothing. I wasn't even worth his time so not sure why he married me in the first place. I believe the marriage was merely a marriage of convenience for him at the time. Anyway, he left the home when the divorce was final in January. He did not say a word and I have not heard a thing from him since his departure. So he's angry, but what about what he is doing to me? I felt so alone, sad and neglected, emotionally, physically and in more ways than one. How could someone love you so much, yet, leave you like you never existed? I love this man and willing to work with him again. I love and although we are divorced, hoping and wishing he will someday return to try a relationship again. Doesn't look like that's even a remote possibility. But again, my heart desires no other but him. I truly love this man more than I could tell you. I was too hurt and ignored and thought the thought of divorce will have him rethink what he is doing. It didn't. Seemed like that was something he wanted anyway. I miss him Steve and he is my exact match in every sense of the word. I want this man back in my life. I was hoping that you (Steve) or Shirely can either call me or contact me someway to help me with this. I don't care if you need to use this for your show, anyway you see fit. Just help get us two together again! I know this is NOT a mistake and I am certain that we will be the couple in your history books to remember. Please help!