Being a step parent

[4kings1queen]

I donot like my step son. He is a three year old bully, he licks his snot, he told a old lady to suck his penis(he said the d word),he plays with his poop. The list goes on. He doesnt listen at all. His dad just let him do whatever bcuz he is afraid the mother will run off with him. I try to talk to his dad because it really irritating but it goes in one ear and out the other. Im to a poinr where I keep my distance. How would you handle a situation like this?

[Anayiah3]

Bump! ! Not allow his bad ass in my house.... see that's exactly why I don't allow any children around me that I can't whoop hell to the naw!! His momma probably telling him to give you hell

[bxbsmommy]

But he's 3 though. You said his dad lets him do whatever so be mad at him.

[4kings1queen]

Yea, I am mad at him. I send his butt home bcuz he dont listen. But she has ran off with the kids before. And he says shr tells him he dont have to listen to me so I just call hrr n tell her to come get him. And I dont deal with him.

[Captzsss]

There is no way in hell I would watch a kid that didn't listen to me.  I would tell my DH to get that shit together.  If he didn't, everytime he hit the door I would leave and not come back until his ass was gone.  Oh hell nawl.

[Anayiah3]

Ikr.... plain crazy

Quoting Captzsss:

There is no way in hell I would watch a kid that didn't listen to me.  I would tell my DH to get that shit together.  If he didn't, everytime he hit the door I would leave and not come back until his ass was gone.  Oh hell nawl.

[rayroe2]

 I always told my self I couldnt be with someone with kids since I couldnt beat them lol that hard because its not your kid but it is your house so you have to have rules and just use time out if the father will let you

kick the kid when no one looking lol JK

[rayroe2]

 and if she that way about she can keep her damn kid the whole time! and the father can take his son to lunch if he wants to see him until everyone knows how to act right

[Rain2Rinse]

I got nothin'. I will NEVER do the step parent thing again.
Good luck?

[lillady398]

I would continue to let him know whats acceptable and what is not acceptable. I cant stand my step kids either but thank GOD we can put step before the kid.

[mamaofficer]

The same here!!!!

Quoting Rain2Rinse:

I got nothin'. I will NEVER do the step parent thing again.

Good luck?