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is it u or your spouse?

Posted by on May. 1, 2012 at 10:28 AM
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who wears the pants in your relationship? Who has the FINAL say? be honest.....lol

Posted by on May. 1, 2012 at 10:28 AM
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luvthagirl
by Silver Member on May. 1, 2012 at 10:36 AM

It would depend on the situation

leaniece
by Gold Member on May. 1, 2012 at 10:38 AM


Quoting luvthagirl:

It would depend on the situation

a majority of the time

JakesMom712
by Mel on May. 1, 2012 at 11:02 AM
Me.
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.Peaches.
by Le Chatte Noire on May. 1, 2012 at 11:07 AM
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 We discuss, and I make my opinion known, but I leave it up to him, as the head of our household.

bxbsmommy
by Gold Member on May. 1, 2012 at 11:13 AM
He does as he's the head of the household.
Believe86
by Silver Member on May. 1, 2012 at 11:15 AM
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He is head of the household, and there are certain things that he's better at than I am and vice versa. We both put our heads together and come up with the final say.

luvthagirl
by Silver Member on May. 1, 2012 at 11:28 AM

I don't keep score. A good example would be last year when it was time for me to get a new car, he wanted me to get a 4door family type car and i wanted a 2car sporty car. It was my car and i was the one that had to drive it so i got the car i wanted

Quoting leaniece:

 

Quoting luvthagirl:

It would depend on the situation

a majority of the time

 

Anayiah3
by on May. 1, 2012 at 11:36 AM
most of the time it's me lol and I can't say that I like it because if it fails I get the blame LOL. I wanted to move he didn't so I found a place he refused to check it out until it was time to move now we hate it LOL MY FAULT
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GoddessNDaRuff
by Mz. Cece on May. 1, 2012 at 11:49 AM
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Depends on what it is. When it comes to the kids I have final say. When it comes to financial planning he has final say beause he's better at that sort of thing. When it comes to big purchases I have final say because when he sees new tech he wants he loses all reasoning ability LOL. For the most part I leave it up to him as he is head of household.  

Hottmomma607
by Group Mod - Trica on May. 1, 2012 at 12:54 PM
Yup! And besides there isn't a life changing decision that we haven't talked about!

Quoting bxbsmommy:

He does as he's the head of the household.
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