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Celibacy anyone??

Posted by on May. 9, 2012 at 9:58 AM
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Question: Are you celibate?

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Yes, completely

No I could never be celibate

Yes but I use toys


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Are any of you ladies celibate? How long have you been celibate? I wonder if toys count cuz that's not completely celibate right? I don't/can't use toys. Too many people in my house and not enough time anyways. Sleep and work is all I do lately.

I took a vow of celibacy in November of 2010 so I'm almost at the 2 year mark. Don't know how long this will last but so far so good. Seems to me like I'm a magnet for all the wrongs guys. I'm 23 and I have dated 2 guys. Ex/bby ddy was an abusive, lying cheater and on/off again SO is all sorts of wrong.

There is a guy at my new job is attracted to me but he's married, claiming that his wife is cheating so he's getting a divorce and get this: The ring on his finger is not his wedding ring. He "found" it on the ground so he wears it as a jewelry piece! Didn't think I looked that stupid but I guess I do lol Men are stupid and pathetic liars so that is the reason for my vow of celibacy.

What about you? Why are you celibate?

by on May. 9, 2012 at 9:58 AM
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mstricey
by Bronze Member on May. 9, 2012 at 10:00 AM
I did once. Went a year. I doubt I could do it again.
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NCmommie1012
by on May. 9, 2012 at 10:02 AM
Heck NO!!! Lol I love sex way too much to ever do that, husband or not lmao... Was that an overshare??
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SexyDiva19
by Silver Member on May. 9, 2012 at 10:04 AM

Why could you not do it again? 

Quoting mstricey:

I did once. Went a year. I doubt I could do it again.


DixieL
by Member on May. 9, 2012 at 10:05 AM

Congratulations. There are too many girls going around sleeping with everyone they see. I think that's great if you are at least trying to wait for the right guy. I did the same thing.

SexyDiva19
by Silver Member on May. 9, 2012 at 10:06 AM
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lol Yea that was a little bit of oversharing. I love sex too but I don't want to be viewed as a sex object. I want the guy to fall in love with me and my heart before he sees me naked, KWIM?

Quoting NCmommie1012:

Heck NO!!! Lol I love sex way too much to ever do that, husband or not lmao... Was that an overshare??


NCmommie1012
by on May. 9, 2012 at 10:09 AM
That's understandable. I respect that, most people are not strong enough to commit to something like this. I would happily clean my entire house on a regular, like dusting and everything, before I was celibate!!! And I hate cleaning, lol


Quoting SexyDiva19:

lol Yea that was a little bit of oversharing. I love sex too but I don't want to be viewed as a sex object. I want the guy to fall in love with me and my heart before he sees me naked, KWIM?


Quoting NCmommie1012:

Heck NO!!! Lol I love sex way too much to ever do that, husband or not lmao... Was that an overshare??



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mstricey
by Bronze Member on May. 9, 2012 at 10:30 AM
Because i love sex. I see nothing wrong with 2 consenting adults having sex as long as they are single. If i was single I would find a fuck buddy or 2.


Quoting SexyDiva19:

Why could you not do it again? 


Quoting mstricey:

I did once. Went a year. I doubt I could do it again.



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luvthagirl
by Gold Member on May. 9, 2012 at 10:33 AM
I haven't been celibate since I started having sex at 18
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tamikadorch26
by on May. 9, 2012 at 10:56 AM
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Nope, I got  the real thing at home. 10 plus years  getting it. LOL

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