I really need some outside advice. I am pregnant with 2 possible fathers but the possibility of 2 fathers is not the issue, the real issue is that one of the possibles are GAY/BI point blank likes men. Now when we had sex to me it was just sexual nothing more nothing less...then I ended up pregnant. The problem here is that I don't want him in my childs life if he is the father. He really wants to be. I have told him he may or may not be the father but he is determined to be involved. I have went as far as telling him I had an abortion but ended up running into him several weeks ago. Since then he's came to my house trying to talk. I don't want to be rude to him so I let him know that I would like to go through with my pregnancy alone. He told me to promise him that id call him when I'm in labor but I told him straight up I can't make that promise to him. id rather be a single mother then to have to deal with the fact I have a child from a gay man. I know I shouldn't keep him away but I can't help it. I know people first of all wouldn't have put themselves in my shoes but if you/they were what would you do? Deal with the fact or raise your child solo. I mean maybe down the line I might contact him but right now I can't bring myself to do it. Please help.