Ok I need some advice (UPDATE CUZ YALL KEEP REPLYING LOL)
He's not going. In fact he actually got approval from his current supervisor to get the 10 days off....and as long as he's not in ALS, he'll take it and be there with me.
I NO LONGER NEED ADVICE ON THIS TOPIC LOL
the wobble is a line dance done at weddings now a days, based off the original song by V.I.C
I'm due July 18th
His class reunion is July 14th, in MD.
He's really wanting to go, so when I asked him about the baby he says to me well the doctor might induce u in June
Ok, Even more reason not to go! You travel that far in touch with all these different people and come back in contact with a baby that's a few weeks OLD?!?!
He's trying to stay with a friend (all his friends are females so that's not about to fly)
He rarely has money for ANYTHING so I'm not sure HOW he plans on getting there & back.
Now he's saying he's going to kill 2 birds with one stone and go see his son.
Although, I'm about 90% sure he told me his son would come down here for the summer. Now he's saying he'd have to drive 5 hours to go get him ( wtf is the difference if you're driving further to go to MD!!!)
Now he's saying I'm being selfish because I don't want him to go see his son but seriously is that close to my due date the right time to do something like that?
He hasn't seen him since October. ( hasn't even tried) so what's the difference in waiting a bit longer? I think he's using his son as an excuse to go up there just to go to his class reunion. Like, he's risking missing his childs birth, or exposing her to all these other peoples germs to "see his son" mind u, the boys birthday is the end of July! ( about 2 weeks AFTER the reunion!)
Honestly, if he goes up there I feel like I might as well just give up on this realtionship because that's just...wow...who does this?
Am I really being that selfish or is he?