Sooo, today, my BF got into an argument with his brother....lorddd you don't know people til you watch em fight with their family. I'm hearin all kinds of ish... a bit annoyed cuz he cut off our conversation to do this....
but it's crazy, his brother is getting kicked out ( my bf told him he could stay here) well, thats a problem cuz...he brother is fine, I'm not gonna even lie. He's all short and thugged out, and quiet, don't talk too much....that was my thing back in the day.... but ANYWAY lol
He's gettin kicked out cuz his gf, keeps finding nude pics in his phone, so she broke it.
But now, he's just sitting around the house and won't find a job
AND it turns out he has THREE kids, not 2 like everybody thought! ( iono why she mad tho, cuz she had a baby with someone else during their "relationship" ) but anyway, I guess now she wants to do better. But, can't understand why he don't treat her right...so SHE calls my bf, and this idiot trying to make her feel better tells her that she's attractive and all this ish, but he messed up cuz he said "in a different situation I'd sleep with you"
I'm sittin here like nigga what? WHY would you open your mouth and say that, his brother is mad about it LMAO so now my bf is like, maybe I shouldn't have said that, but you don't need to treat her like that ( well, wtf one got to do with the other?!?)
Now, they're talking about fighting cuz apparently, they're from the streets and blah blah blah w/e I'ma cut everybody des boys ain't hard...well..his brother might be..like I said he got that look lol
Oh, it's over.... they're mad. both talmbout they dead to each other..... uhm..I'ma just sit here and wait for round 3.
I think there are a lot of moms on here, who in their early 20's like yourself (I know myself for sure) were in a similar relationship such as the one you're in now. What they are are telling you is out of concern for you and mostly your child. But if you're ok with the way your SO acts, then you should be able to tolerate it with no complaints. I won't comment any more on your posts.
Quoting MandiFuego:
Quoting SunFlower700:
RED FLAG ... You can do better in the bf department. If he can say in front of your face that he would sleep with another woman. Shows how much respect he has for you.
I'm starting to wonder about yall. Maybe, I'm just a realist....but NOT saying something isn't a matter of respect if the thoughts are still there. At that point ANY one is merely hiding behind omission which to me, is the same as a lie.
Dag, they still fightin? Is that all they ever do?
And I'm mad at your bf...I would've checked him right upside the head with the sideye.
My bf got punched in the chest yesterday for sayin some random ish about Kim K's ass. When I was sittin on TOP OF HIM. lol
Quoting .Peaches.:Dag, they still fightin? Is that all they ever do?
And I'm mad at your bf...I would've checked him right upside the head with the sideye.
My bf got punched in the chest yesterday for sayin some random ish about Kim K's ass. When I was sittin on TOP OF HIM. lol
lol no, they haven't talked since after saying they were going to fight at Thanksgiving smh.
IDK, I'm guessing we're different cuz we'll sit and comment about all kinds of people, in all kinds of ways LMAO he's still tryna find a white actress that I'll find attractive...I just don't think it's going to happen smh. We used to do this thing where we'd walk through wal-mart and he'd be like "what about her?" (the original question was, would you have a 3 some with...some random girl we saw somewhere)...our taste are so different LOL I feel like if he's attracted to me, I would look at myself and be like ew no!
Ok. I'm about to make you real mad and I am sorry. Truth is truth and it often hurts.
Birds of a feather flock together. His family is full of issues, very dysfunctional.
10x's out of 10 a dysfunctional person is in a relationship w/ another dysfunctional person.
If you look at your family and yourself how many issues can you find?
I wouldn't say you should step off due to what he said. You should step off due to the fact that you willingly accept what he said and you are giving up justifications for why he said it and why you should be ok with it.
He disrespected himself, his brother, you and the bro's gf. In that order.
That's why you should get out and get your head and heart in a much better place before you even get in another relationship. Nothing about that situation should be ok with you.
Quoting Gmama17:Ok. I'm about to make you real mad and I am sorry. Truth is truth and it often hurts.
Birds of a feather flock together. His family is full of issues, very dysfunctional.
10x's out of 10 a dysfunctional person is in a relationship w/ another dysfunctional person.
If you look at your family and yourself how many issues can you find?
I wouldn't say you should step off due to what he said. You should step off due to the fact that you willingly accept what he said and you are giving up justifications for why he said it and why you should be ok with it.
He disrespected himself, his brother, you and the bro's gf. In that order.
That's why you should get out and get your head and heart in a much better place before you even get in another relationship. Nothing about that situation should be ok with you.
I know, it is sorta sad watching people's crazy feed off of each other. The vicious cycle that will affect the lives of the kids that are or will be involved. I started coming to CM for business purposes yet would like to get some good convo going on, I thought I would find it here, yeah no.
I am not saying anyone is stupid, when you accept certain types of treatment from others it shows a lack of love for self. Look at the post at about 2pm yesterday "if he is attracted to me I would look at my self and say ew no" You would look at you and say EW? that sounds ok to you? that sounds like a mentally and emotionally healthy viewpoint of yourself? IF you don't like you, do you think anyone else like you? You have to like and love youirself first. That is the point. Don't matter if he loves you or respects you you sound like you don't respect yourself. You should go back and read this mess. And take a long hard look at yourself. If you can stand the sight of yourself.
u have an opinion to wht you think, doens't mean I asked for it.
Quoting Gmama17:Ok. I'm about to make you real mad and I am sorry. Truth is truth and it often hurts.
Birds of a feather flock together. His family is full of issues, very dysfunctional.
10x's out of 10 a dysfunctional person is in a relationship w/ another dysfunctional person.
If you look at your family and yourself how many issues can you find?
I wouldn't say you should step off due to what he said. You should step off due to the fact that you willingly accept what he said and you are giving up justifications for why he said it and why you should be ok with it.
He disrespected himself, his brother, you and the bro's gf. In that order.
That's why you should get out and get your head and heart in a much better place before you even get in another relationship. Nothing about that situation should be ok with you.
Interracial babies?
Due Date
- MandiFuego
on Jun. 6, 2012 at 7:02 PM