My male cousin had this on his FB page. Now to give you some background,he's former military, makes great money and fathered I think 2-3 kids and didn't like the fact that he had to pay CS. So he has a tendency to make negative comments about women, well when he posted this on Friday I just had the need to comment so I did and this is what I said:
ME: Well, if that's the case we can say the same thing about some men. Cuzzo it is what it is. This is shouldn't be about man vs women because in reality it's the same no matter what gender. It's about individuality. You can take that same scenario and apply it to men. Then what? Well for those men that actually see their kids without the drama that it attached, you know, "you're not with me, you're with another chick, so you can't see Junior"...or for the men that simply don't want to be present. It's about who that person is. Just me 2 cent.
Him: Well, cuz I totally agree!!! We just a Damn mess!! LOL. Oh and sid not cuz, not splittin hairs but the woman is the only one in this scenario who had 3 choices were as the man only has one. They are don't sleep with the person, second don't have his child, or third have his child. I am just making the arguement cuz, that women always sayin it is there body, well make better choices with it... I know we have our hand in it to, I know!!
Me: I marginally agree because you're absolutely correct women are the one that have the choice to carry, abort, adopt out. However just my opinion if you don't want any children then hey do like Michael Baisden says and "snip snip", I've heard a lot of men say that they didn't want any children and somehow ended up with 3,4,5 kids. I've heard women say the same thing...and guess what they end up with 3,4,5, ..however when someone truly doesn't want anymore children they get fixed. I did. Like I said, it is what it is, but men do have choices. They can choose not to participate or get "snipped", guess what then the pic would be null in void. I can't say wrap it up because that's not always effective but hey do that as well. The woman in that picture didn't make those kids alone and if you look at the women that fit that description the men she had kids by also has numerous kids. I get what you're saying by taking responsibility for your actions but hey that's a two way street.
Him: Cuz, already been there done that!!! No more Escalade payments a month for me!!! LOL
I think I shut him up....