SO make you perm/relax your hair or wear waeve because they don't like your natural hair. Mines is always telling me to wear a wig, sometimes I wan to wear MY hair not the hair I purchased in a ponytail. It's just annoying sometimes I have to remind him that I'm black with kinky hair, and that I wasn't born with a silky mane. Although he complains he won't pay the $250 to get my hair styled the way I want it to be styled. I guess this was kind of a vent, ugh. Thanks for reading.