I want to know how you" spice " it up in the bedroom. i want some new ideas ....here are mine.

[Number1Diva]

I like to role play, dress up, get it in public places, i thought about a threesome cuz he hasn't experienced it but i decided not to what do you think? He loves oral so i stepped my game up but i need some tips on how to make it more fun. Particularly deep throat techniques. Sorry if this is too much info but i don't want to ask a local girlfriend..besides, Come on i know there's some DL freaks in here anyway. I wanna hear fantasies too...did you act on it? If so how did it work out? Im all ears...lets talk about it ;)

[salinamarie]

Lol. He doesn't ask for one, I had asked him what he wanted for his birthday and he said a threesome with an asian lol. I don't think I can do the threesome though.

Quoting lishistwins:

Mine has wanted one for 8 yrs I think he's given up lol

Quoting salinamarie:

Mine wants a threesome for his birthday, but I'm not too sure about it.

[salinamarie]

lol i've heard about that before. But I think my friend was just playing when he was telling us. lol

Quoting lishistwins:

Do you remember a candy called pop rocks yes the ones that pop in your mouth once wet. Put a few in your mouth while given oral it will drive him crazy good luck

[lishistwins]

When we talk of fantasies this is what comes up the most

Quoting salinamarie:

Lol. He doesn't ask for one, I had asked him what he wanted for his birthday and he said a threesome with an asian lol. I don't think I can do the threesome though.

Quoting lishistwins:

Mine has wanted one for 8 yrs I think he's given up lol

Quoting salinamarie:

Mine wants a threesome for his birthday, but I'm not too sure about it.

[lishistwins]

No he was probably for real I got this from a girl who use to live in Vegas. My hubby didn't want to try it until her hubby vouched for it lol

Quoting salinamarie:

lol i've heard about that before. But I think my friend was just playing when he was telling us. lol

Quoting lishistwins:

Do you remember a candy called pop rocks yes the ones that pop in your mouth once wet. Put a few in your mouth while given oral it will drive him crazy good luck

[salinamarie]

lol wow. I think anything that has to do with oral my Honey would wanna try it lol

Quoting lishistwins:

No he was probably for real I got this from a girl who use to live in Vegas. My hubby didn't want to try it until her hubby vouched for it lol

Quoting salinamarie:

lol i've heard about that before. But I think my friend was just playing when he was telling us. lol

Quoting lishistwins:

Do you remember a candy called pop rocks yes the ones that pop in your mouth once wet. Put a few in your mouth while given oral it will drive him crazy good luck

[Number1Diva]

Ok i am trying to work on my flexibility but in not going to front im not consistent. I wish i had a work out buddy cuz it could help my stamina too. Im a freak....but my man is a beast. Everytime i think i got one up on him he finds a way to top what i do. I love to call him daddy and talk dirty get rough wit it choke me out spank me..being more flexible would help ;D

Quoting MandiFuego:

when me and bf were still sexually active, we'd do things like sex on the car, ( in the car didn't work, he was too tall, I was too short, it didn't work out well for us lol) in the pool ( although, I've read you can get a UTI from that) on the beach

i've stripped for him before

I just asked him what stands out in his memory about our sex life,  he says  that I'm very flexible, and I let him put his finger in my butt ( only a finger tho) and my lack of gag reflex ( although,  I personally know that's changed since becoming pregnant)

Oh and he says he likes that I didn't spit. ( well, come on now, that's not just not lady like LMAO)

Oh and how I'd wake him up by kissing him or other "exciting" things andddd like any typical guy he liked it when I called him daddy ( well, papi in my case, but eh)

We also have a sex position book, a few of them LOL it was fun trying the new ones, we went through it once and realized some of those positions we just couldn't do lol

We had a 3some once, on accident in the verrrrrrry beginning of our relationship....it was awkward for everyone involved, we all just decided never to talk about it again..and never to drink conjure in the pool, then chase it with yeungling ( bad idea)

[Number1Diva]

I feel you on that. I have had a threesome before and although it was a helluva experience i would most definitely want to do it again being in a relationship with the person is another ball game. In still considering though cuz if i find a woman i am comfortable with and attracted to we can both have our cake and eat it too. For me i get the best of both worlds. Mmm..mmm...mmm just thinking about it..did you ever have one?

Quoting salinamarie:

[Number1Diva]

I would start out discussing a threesome and ask what he pictures happening and it thoughts, what's considered acceptable some have boundaries, to each her own. How i want to do it is by surpise, i have so many ways i would do it tho. My favorite thought is him coming home to two beautiful women dressed hella sexy with a bath run for him. After we bathe him we give him a full body massage..then both go to work on his beautiful Frank and beans... lol. I could definitely use the help..whew. its gettin hot. Ok then i would go in on the other woman while she works on that. Hopefully she comes before him cuz i want the first nut, if she does after he works me out for a little bit while she gets at my mans beans n my clit she will be in for the ride of her life! Everytime i think about it i want it soo bad i just haven't found the right woman so maybe its not meant to be. In any case i feel the women need to be comfortable with each other

Quoting 4kings1queen:

I heard of pop rocks. Heard of warming the peach after punching a hole in it n sliding it up and down his penis. Sounds good to me. Not too much work. For those that wants a threesome,how do you just say lets do this?

[lishistwins]

Well alright DIVA calm down over there I hope you get what you both want

Quoting Number1Diva:

I would start out discussing a threesome and ask what he pictures happening and it thoughts, what's considered acceptable some have boundaries, to each her own. How i want to do it is by surpise, i have so many ways i would do it tho. My favorite thought is him coming home to two beautiful women dressed hella sexy with a bath run for him. After we bathe him we give him a full body massage..then both go to work on his beautiful Frank and beans... lol. I could definitely use the help..whew. its gettin hot. Ok then i would go in on the other woman while she works on that. Hopefully she comes before him cuz i want the first nut, if she does after he works me out for a little bit while she gets at my mans beans n my clit she will be in for the ride of her life! Everytime i think about it i want it soo bad i just haven't found the right woman so maybe its not meant to be. In any case i feel the women need to be comfortable with each other

Quoting 4kings1queen:

I heard of pop rocks. Heard of warming the peach after punching a hole in it n sliding it up and down his penis. Sounds good to me. Not too much work. For those that wants a threesome,how do you just say lets do this?

[4kings1queen]

Wow. No, I think the dude will always wanna try it. If I say no he probably will cheat. Im not into women so I would have my rules. I just think its best I dont go there.