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Grudges

Posted by on Jul. 11, 2012 at 7:51 AM
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Are u the type to keep one? Even if it's the worst possible thing... I am a Taurus, so I can be stubborn. Holding grudges isnt healthy IMO. I try to forgive and 99 % of the time, I do. But I will NEVER forget. Taking my parking spot constantly or even a little white lie could be easily forgiven....It would be hard for me to stay cordial around someone or even forgive someone who, God forbids, molests my child or cheated on me.... Are u this way or u forgive.... No matter what happens.
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Diva-Mami
by Silver Member on Jul. 11, 2012 at 1:11 PM
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I never forget. I wont hold a grudge, but I wont let you get close to me again.
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mrsary
by Silver Member on Jul. 11, 2012 at 1:14 PM
This


Quoting CoolRelax:

Sometimes I wish I could hold grudges longer....but alas, my memory is short and staying mad requires focused energy on my part.  Once that angry energy burns out I have a hard time rekindling it. 


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Tish_Hughes
by on Jul. 11, 2012 at 2:01 PM
Big things. Sometimes small things, depends on my mood.

Quoting leaniece:

Just on the big things or on the small things too?
Quoting Tish_Hughes:

Yep.

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rayroe2
by Crazy on Jul. 11, 2012 at 2:25 PM

I keep it moving but ill never forget what people do lol I still have a grudge towards my mother for always giving my cats away.

krisdev67
by Pamela on Jul. 11, 2012 at 2:52 PM

 No I don't.  However once you cross over the line with me I'm done dealing with you. 

GoddessNDaRuff
by Mz. Cece on Jul. 11, 2012 at 3:00 PM

nope I don't forgive easily nor do I forget. Once you are on my shit list you bout to have a hell of a time getting off.

KW1280
by on Jul. 11, 2012 at 3:31 PM

I forgive and move on.  There is no sense for me to be all worked up mad at a person when they can give less than a darn about mine.  I got too much going on my plate without adding grudges to it.

leaniece
by Gold Member on Jul. 11, 2012 at 3:45 PM
I swore I would never do that to my kids lol.... My parents would ALWAYS give my puppies away!! As soon as I would get close to them and a puppy pissed on the floor.....uh-oh time for a "long walk".... Then all of a sudden, it "ran" away......thought my parents were the only one lol[ quote name="rayroe2" id="0"]

I keep it moving but ill never forget what people do lol I still have a grudge towards my mother for always giving my cats away.

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