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Would you date a man who has previous domestic violence charges?

Posted by on Jul. 15, 2012 at 11:32 AM
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Googled his name and found 2 mug shots (good ole Florida, lol) from 2004 & 2005. One arrest was for domestic violence, the other for domestic violence injunction. He has not told me any of this. I thought something was up with him, because he seems to "perfect". Is it worth the risk? I assume he doesn't want me to know, since he did not tell me.

Posted by on Jul. 15, 2012 at 11:32 AM
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4kings1queen
by Silver Member on Jul. 15, 2012 at 5:52 PM
And women need to stop telling these men about their past. If you was in a abusive situation before,thats why he is digging you so you can be his next victim. Smh
mrsary
by Silver Member on Jul. 15, 2012 at 6:07 PM
I think I told him this b4 we started talking, so I agree w u. him knowing that made me a prime target. Smh.


Quoting 4kings1queen:

And women need to stop telling these men about their past. If you was in a abusive situation before,thats why he is digging you so you can be his next victim. Smh

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grownsexy
by Bronze Member on Jul. 15, 2012 at 6:08 PM

If he doesn't bring it up then I would leave him alone. It is easy to ressurect demons. I do believe people can change but I don't like to experiment.

inmybizz
by Platinum Member on Jul. 15, 2012 at 6:44 PM

I would need more info- have a talk with him, feel him out, see how he handles situations when he's upset..

How did his last relationship end?

lishistwins
by Bronze Member on Jul. 15, 2012 at 6:57 PM
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Me too lol. If you're hanging out with me you've been Google's

Quoting mrsary:

It may sound weird, but I google EVERYONE. Lol.




Quoting Stormywaters03:

It

sounds like the biggest issue in the relationship isn't his past, but

trust.  I mean, you googled him, you probably had a reason for that in

the first place...like all the stuff you just said about him.  Lol.

Quoting mrsary:

Exactly! I know he hasn't done any therapy though. He has jumped from marriage to marriage more than twice & has many baby mamas. I don't even know how we got to this point... got so close. I prefered a 1 night stand with him but he was against that.






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mrsary
by Silver Member on Jul. 15, 2012 at 7:01 PM
His last relationship ended w her leaving him with the kids.


Quoting inmybizz:

I would need more info- have a talk with him, feel him out, see how he handles situations when he's upset..

How did his last relationship end?


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.Peaches.
by Le Chatte Noire on Jul. 15, 2012 at 7:01 PM

 Um, no.

Obviously, he didn't change from the first charge, cuz he's got two. I wouldn't trust anyone like that around me, let alone my kids.

inmybizz
by Platinum Member on Jul. 15, 2012 at 7:11 PM

did he say why she left?

Quoting mrsary:

His last relationship ended w her leaving him with the kids.


Quoting inmybizz:

I would need more info- have a talk with him, feel him out, see how he handles situations when he's upset..

How did his last relationship end?



ksbondgirl
by Gold Member on Jul. 15, 2012 at 7:23 PM

 no. end of story...

mrsary
by Silver Member on Jul. 15, 2012 at 7:27 PM
There was a lot of infidelity from both of them. They both had a kid from those affairs.


Quoting inmybizz:

did he say why she left?

Quoting mrsary:

His last relationship ended w her leaving him with the kids.





Quoting inmybizz:

I would need more info- have a talk with him, feel him out, see how he handles situations when he's upset..

How did his last relationship end?





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