What to do? help!!

[kpstephens1984]

Dh and I were supposed to go out tonight to go and see my favorite band. He had promised to take me and backed out at the last minute to go to some fuckin birthday party that he said that he forgot and was told like 4 months in advance.

question is should I find a babysitter for just my 2? or should I get a babysitter for all 3 kids? Or let my selfish ass husband find his own babysitter for his son so he can go out?

What would you do??

[Pink_Sunshine]

His own Son? Don't you take care of all 3? I understand he's being an ass but no need to separate the kids especially if you all are living in the same household. Thats just wrong.

[mom2kortni]

Uh, the kids didn't do anything. Find a sitter for all three.

[Omokirk]

His son is your son

[kpstephens1984]

Thanks ladies. I appreciate that. I did have this not so comfortable gut feeling about doing that.

But I wish that he would compromise and try another date night or even invite me to the party. But i guess thats la la land right! lol

[truly.a.taurus]

Quoting kpstephens1984:

Thanks ladies. I appreciate that. I did have this not so comfortable gut feeling about doing that.

But I wish that he would compromise and try another date night or even invite me to the party. But i guess thats la la land right! lol

Why aren't you invited to the party? Could he just be assuming that you will be going and just didn't ask? If so ask him what he expects you to do now that his plans changed.

[luvthagirl]

Why wouldn't you be invited being that you are his wife unless it was some type of all male or bachelor party

Quoting kpstephens1984:

Thanks ladies. I appreciate that. I did have this not so comfortable gut feeling about doing that.

But I wish that he would compromise and try another date night or even invite me to the party. But i guess thats la la land right! lol

[kpstephens1984]

Quoting luvthagirl:

Why wouldn't you be invited being that you are his wife unless it was some type of all male or bachelor party

Quoting kpstephens1984:

Thanks ladies. I appreciate that. I did have this not so comfortable gut feeling about doing that.

But I wish that he would compromise and try another date night or even invite me to the party. But i guess thats la la land right! lol

Yes it's all men and I think they are going to end up at a strip club, all night smack talking, etc. etc. I do have my suspicions and I'm calling his sneaky ass right now!!!!

[KymberleeAnn]

Bump

[kikitice]

Find a sitter, call your girls and go check out your favorite band! I'm sorry, I'm not feeling the put someone else before me line tonight! LOL

[rayroe2]

I would ask if I could go to the party too.