well, this post is about someone near and dear to me, my sister. she is great woman and an wonderful mother. i just want her to be happy....but for some reason, she is under the impression that she has to "get herself together first" before she starts a relationship. Well, she hasn't had a real relationship since her child's father, and he is now 11 going 12! i just don't get it...she wants marriage and a father for her child, but she is such a good person, that she has litterally put her life on hold to help everyone else and she feels because of her finances and the fact that she isn't really where she wants to be, she doesn't want a man right now. but i am like, hey, i am the only one to get married out of the the 3 of us, and i didn't have myself together either lol...my point is, as some point, you need to live life for you and be happy....not that man will do that for you, but a lil love can never hurt anyone. plus, he might want to come in and help you. she does need someone to support her in everyway because i am tired of seeing her struggle to make it the way she does. i personally feel that she really needs to fix herself up, take a night out on the town, and mingle a little...stop stressing and just enjoy her life!
i am right about this or do you agree with my sister on this one?