How would you respond to a 20 yr old kid who is your husbands godson not speaking to you? I am 39 and was brought up to speak to adults first when you are in their home. Husband's godson has been staying with us for 6 months. He was told atleast 3 times over a 6 month period to speak to me. The last time I thought he got it, but today I walk in the house after a 10 hr work day, and he has his head buried in a cell phone. He hears me come in but says nothing. This is becoming a regular occurence. I find this to be so disrespectful. He is only supposed to be staying for summer, but I fear it is going to be longer. Is it wrong for me to want him to go? I am beginning to wonder if he has some issue with women. I know he has problems with his mom and now I think he is taking it out on me. I feel I have been nothing but nice to him.