I'm in a mood today! First, my brother bugged me to use my car several times before I let him use it. Stating that he had to take his 4th child to the doctor. It irritates me because he had a car and because he NEVER made the payment on time, his car was then repossessed. That was like his 7th car since he got his license. I understand that she's a newborn but damn, that's his kid, not mine! I know that it seems heartless but he's 28 years old and has been depending on my generosity for over 5 years and I'm the baby of 5. I'm only 26. I finally told him that he has to get his ish together because my car is for my family. He has his own LARGE family in which he refuses to tell his lazy ass girlfriend of his to get a job. If she got a job, then MAYBE they would be able to afford a car instead of living off of his $8.50 an hour McDonald's salary. There's nothing wrong with working at McDonald's but at least have two incomes. She has been offered a job and she turned it down. That was her 3rd job offer that she refused. So, I'm at the point where I can't take it anymore. They will no longer use my brand new car for whatever the hell it is that they need to do. I'm putting my foot down. I like having nice things and when other people destroy those nice things, it really pisses me off. My last car was driven into the ground because he kept asking to use it and being as kind hearted as I am, I let him. No more! This is the NICEST car that I have ever had with a DVD player, MP3 player, and wood grain paneling, you know, the works and I'd be damned if I let him destroy this one. I think that he doesn't move forward with his life because he's content with riding on my coat tails.
2nd, my mom and sister borrowed 890.00 from me and were supposed to pay me back months ago. Whenever I ask for my money back, they ignore me and won't answer my calls. I'm only asking for 30.00 per week until it's paid off and nope! They won't even do that! I would hate to have to take them to court.
Ladies, please tell me that I'm not alone with family members that take advantage of your kindness!?!
I'm sorry ladies, just venting.