is any body out-there happy with there life or is being witha man makes them happy. can we has women give up one of the other for a career or happyness. me i want to know because that's where i am. i want to be happy but also have money and the life i want. i have ideas and i want to bring them out. i want to show myself i can do it. i love him but moved to another state three years ago. and i seen him two weeks and i whated him so bad but i think it's to late for us. and i don't think a long distance lover will do for me.